pinned post

All the cool kids have a pinned post with useful info on it, so now I have a pinned post with useful info on it. Here, have some bulletpoints.

basics.

  • Bog, or any nickname you can shake out of “bog unicorn”
  • Queer (they/them) & fandom old (so, not in my 20s)
  • If you tag me in stuff or send me asks, I do see them, even if I don’t respond. My memory is just dogshit, and especially if you send me nice things, I go “aww I’ll get to that when I have time”, and then 20 minutes later it’ll fall right out of my head. It’s not you, it’s me. Do come talk to me, though! I love chatting when things don’t fall through the holes in my memory.
  • I usually tag fandoms. For some fandoms, I tag individual characters or ships. I try to tag for common triggers and try to put “fandom/ship/character critical” or “anti whatever” on my more critical posts. You’re always welcome to directly ask me to tag specific things, but be aware that if I don’t think I’ll remember it, I may say no. I do not tag NSFW and would prefer if you didn’t follow me if you’re under 18. I can barely look after myself, I can’t also be someone else’s babysitter.
  • My most consistent non-fandom tags are “bog post” (for posts I make, or ones where I add significant commentary in the reblog or tags), “stay salty” (general grousing and bitching), and “fandom bs” (for fandom nonsense or fandom criticisms).
  • More nitpicky details on my about page if you want ‘em.

frequent fandoms & favorites.

  • Dragon Age - Though I’m doing my best to avoid stuff about the next game, so you won’t see any of that on my blog and I have as many relevant tags blacklisted off my dash. I probably reblog more Solas stuff than any other character, but it’s kind of hodgepodge at this point.
  • Six of Crows/Crooked Kingdom - The books and the shows. Most of my reblogs are Kanej-related.
  • Sailor Moon - I don’t tag character names for this one, only the fandom.
  • FFXIV - Sometimes I post pictures of my WoLs! I do my best to tag expansion spoilers and make my tumblr friendly for newbies.
  • DnD & some other RPGs, Dimension 20, Baldur’s Gate 3 - I try to spoiler tag anything about Dimension 20 because they have so many separate campaigns out, and will tag for BG3 spoilers for a good long while. I’m also in a DnD 5e campaign and running my own at the moment.
  • Supernatural - I’m not getting out of this dumpster anytime soon. If you filter out SPN stuff, it’s “deancas”, not “destiel”. I do not care who your favorite is or who you ship as long as you’re not a dickhead in my mentions.

other sites/socials.

Sometimes I feel like I'm missing out because my kinks aren't weirdly specific enough. The folks who get off on the most narrowly contrived scenarios always seem to be having the most fun.

People are out there like "I'm a naughty little cube and I need you to tell me my axes of symmetry are cute and multifarious" and having a fantastic time with it, and I'm just over here sucking dick like an idiot.

Playing: Divinity: Original Sin 2; FFXIV